You can play special invisible game
Think more of our own fault, then we will forget others mistake, this is no right or wrong, but just in different positions.
Though when others could not hear what you said, it is your fault that you didn't make your words clear.
Though you were lost poker games, it is your fault that you didn't have certain skills. You much better to change your tactics than attribute your failure to others great skills.
For example, you can play invisible ink game. Invisible ink was used in the game in the form of printing on the poker cards, and the ink can be seen only with special contact lenses and sunglasses.
We are the producer of invisible ink marked cards and contact lenses, do you want to buy some?